Rabbi's Corner

Message from the Rabbi

Enough is Enough
“But Moses’ father-in-law said to him, “The thing you are doing is not right; you will surely wear yourself out, and these people as well. For the task is too heavy for you; you cannot do it alone.” (Exodus 18:17-18)
Don’t bite off more than you can chew.  If you really need help getting something getting something done, ask someone who is very busy.  It sounds counterintuitive but it is true. The people who are doers get things done. 
This brief lesson from Yitro, reminds us that sometimes we are doing a disservice by doing too much.  He teaches that burnout is real and if it happens we are of no use to anyone.  Knowing when we need a break is difficult.  We sometimes feel as though we can just push through and sometimes we can and sometimes we must.  However, knowing when we have hit our limit is incredibly important.  Only you can decide.  

Mark Your Calendars all at 8:00 on zoom at click here
February 13
Not all Uncomfortable Conversations Have to Be Difficult
We all have to visit someone who is ill, elderly or make a shiva call.  In this workshop, I will teach you about how to do that. What is the best way to start?  How do you move on from just talking about the weather?  And how to end the conversation.  No doubt this workshop will deepen every conversation and I look forward to sharing my 30+ years experience in this area.
March 20 
Whine and Wine
We like to brainstorm ideas about how to survive life.  Or just complain.  In the past we have talked about raising kids or dealing with aging parents or both at the same time.  Well, holidays present their own unique set of challenges, especially Passover.  Let's get it all out and talk or just kvetch.
March 22nd and 23rd
Pulpit Swap
Reverend Dr. Blaine Crawford and I will be doing a Pulpit Swap.  That means he will preach in our community on Shabbat morning March 22nd then the next day I will be preaching in his church, Irvington Presbyterian Church, the next day Sunday March 23rd.  As faith leaders we have so much to share with each other that can inspire.  We look forward to meeting new people and showing off our congregations.   


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